As we enter Venus Retrograde today (until 15 April), it is now time to consider and re-evaluate relationships. These can be love, business, or family. Venus rules love, relationships and all kinds of partnerships. So when Venus is in retrograde these areas of your life don't move forward. They are on freeze frame. Therefore, it's not a good time to start new relationships, get engaged or make any big changes to your personal daily life.
During this period you may find that an ex or someone from your past re-emerges. The key to all of this is to find the things that are of interest to you (or to finally see that big red flag). So essentially it's to see what works for you and what doesn't. Ask yourself "what do I want?". This can be difficult as we more often than not put other people before our personal needs.
Now is the time to show yourself the love you normally show others. You may find yourself attracted to someone you have never considered to be a potential romantic prospect or you have a new found clarity or revelation about your existing relationship. I would suggest the following affirmation during this period to encourage self love.
I love myself unconditionally and accept myself as I am.